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On the day of a anniversary, if someone feels like
having an anniversary, the husband and wife should commit to each other
that they would behave according to the sunnah, and two focus one's
marriage if it is going according to Islam or not. How much respect do
we give to each other's rights, and what was done according to Islamic
requirement for the children.
And if we are doing it in the same manner as
the non-Muslims, to bring a cake and call friends, and gift exchange.
The way the husband and wife show there love to each other on the day of
the anniversary, what is stopping them from showing there love each and
every day.
Do not follow the non-believers and media to
have an excuse to make sure there business are running in the name of
anniversaries and birthdays. These are all business gimmicks. Never do
anything which our Prophet and his companions never done.
(To) Those whose eyes had been under a covering from My Reminder (this
Qur'ân), and who could not bear to hear (it). (18:101)
And who does more wrong than he who is reminded of the Ayât
(proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) of his
Lord, but turns away from them forgetting what (deeds) his hands have
sent forth. Truly, We have set veils over their hearts lest they should
understand this (the Qur'ân), and in their ears, deafness. And if you (O
Muhammad SAW) call them to guidance, even then they will never
be guided. (18:57)
The manners and the lifestyle of a Muslim
should be according to Islam, so one should die in a state of Iman, and
not as non-believer.
Stop following the footsteps of a Kaafir
(non-believers) in order not to be treated as them on the day of
resurrection.
Our beloved Prophet
(SAW) said: "Who imitates any other nation must be one of them." (Abu
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